A Nice Family Christmas Unwraps a Lot, is This Very Funny Holiday Show at Lyric Arts

Kathleen Winters, Anthony Zadra, Lyreshia Ghostlon-Green, Lori Constable Photo by Molly Jay

A Nice Family Christmas? They should probably call it A Very Dysfunctional Family Christmas, but maybe that’s a little too on the nose. Still, “nice” feels a bit disingenuous. Funny? Yes! Delightful? Absolutely! Nice? Not on your life. Like all holiday stories about families, we get the ugly, the humorous dysfunction, but also, beneath it all, something genuinely good. After all, what is a Christmas story if not an opportunity for redemption, healing, forgiveness, and reconnecting with the people who drive us crazy?

Set in Minnesota, the play takes place on Christmas Eve in Mom’s condo, where her three grown children arrive to find Grandma there unexpectedly from Florida… and then their very unwanted Uncle Bob barges in as well. The three siblings, who barely seem to speak to each other, are all in relationships that are teetering on various precarious edges. Over the course of the evening, secrets will come out, Grandma will deliver approximately 237 inappropriate comments, and yes, everyone will grow a little. But mostly? The audience will laugh their butts off.

It’s hard to imagine anyone who won’t relate to something in this show. A family dynamic, a tradition, an awkward secret, a chaotic holiday memory, or a rogue Uncle Bob. You’ll spot a piece of your own life somewhere in the mix. At times it almost feels like a modern TV comedy—one of the good ones, not something from the late ’80s. Add a dash of The Golden Girls and you’re in the ballpark. Grandma, in particular, channels major Sophia energy, firing off one-liners like she’s got a writers’ room in her purse.

It’s funny, usually when I leave a show, I’ll think, “I wish this person had seen that.” But for the first time I walked out thinking, “I wish I’d seen this with my brother and sisters.” I think we would’ve had a blast, and dinner afterward would’ve been even more entertaining.

Performance wise, Grandma and Uncle Bob are such wildly outrageous characters that you can’t help but love them. Kathleen Winters and Anthony Zadra have fantastic timing and fully commit to the eccentricities of their characters. I most identified with Carl, the middle child, he’s a writer, not for anything as prestigious as The Stages of MN, but for the Star Tribune. I especially related to the moment when his Mom and Grandma come to see who arrived and are visibly disappointed that it’s him and not his brother Michael. Patrick Kozicky does wonderful work as one of the few semi normal humans in this family, and even when he isn’t the focus of a scene, his reactions land perfectly.

Giving him solid competition in the “closest to normal” category is Lyreshia Ghostlon-Green as his sister Stacy. It’s probably the most under written role in the script, but Ghostlon-Green adds more to the role than she’s given on the page. As Michael and his wife Jill, Sam Sweere and Waverly Ann McCollum deliver hilariously physical performances. When Michael needs to make amends with a member of his family, his discomfort at doing so doesn’t just seep into the rest of his body it floods like a busted dam. His wife is a tsunami of hormonal hysteria due to fertility hormones she is on, It’s a lot and it’s hilarious.

Lori Constable masterfully plays Mom, nailing every aspect of the character’s many roles. She’s the one caught in the middle, put upon, the peacemaker, and ultimately the glue that holds the entire family together.

Phil Olson’s script (he’s a Minnesota native) is genuinely funny. While it doesn’t tug too hard on the heartstrings, the characters do grow, and we arrive at a very nice ending. I’m now curious about his companion play, A Nice Family Gathering. I’d love to see Lyric Arts bring it to the stage next season with the same cast.

A Nice Family Christmas runs through 12/21 at Lyric Arts in Anoka.
For more information and to purchase tickets, visit: https://www.lyricarts.org/nice-family-christmas

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Episode 22: Beware the Phantom of the Stages of MN is Up and Ready to View over on YouTube!

On this very indulgent episode of The Stages of MN Show I sit down with my son Alex and we discuss our Phantastic double feature day! It was a trip down memory lane for both of us as we were surprised by the very good production of R.L. Stine’s Goosebumps: Phantom of the Auditorium at Park Square Theatre and the gorgeous Touring production of Andrew Lloyd Webber’s Phantom of the Opera. You can watch the episode here https://bit.ly/TSOMNEpisode22YouTube. Or if you or not blessed with the power of sight you can listen to the podcast edition here https://bit.ly/TSOMNEpisode22Podcast.

You can still see both of these shows! to get tickets to Goosebumps: Phantom of the Auditorium which runs through December 14th at Park Square in St. Paul bit.ly/ParkSquareGoosebumps and The Phantom of the Opera which runs through December 7th at Hennepin Arts Orpheum Theater in Minneapolis https://hennepinarts.org/events/the-phantom-of-the-opera

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Primary Trust a Reminder of the Importance of Having Someone to Connect to at the Guthrie

William Sturdivant (Bert) and Bryce Michael Wood (Kenneth) Photo by Dan Norman

Here’s how my Tuesday played itself out. I went to work, as I had every day for the last seven weeks, at Maple Grove Senior High, working as an education support professional in the special education department. Unlike the previous days, this one was my last. I had to say goodbye to a couple dozen kids I’d grown extremely fond of.

In a Facebook post about my last day, I wrote that I knew these kids would move on and forget me, but I would never forget them. It was a great day because I spent it with those extraordinary, unique students. It was also a sad day because I had to say goodbye to them. Then that evening, I went to see Primary Trust at the Guthrie Theater, and in small and large ways, I saw the emotions I’d felt throughout the day brought to life on stage.

We’re never told exactly what the main character Kenneth’s diagnosis might be. It may simply be the result of childhood trauma, or he may be on the autism spectrum, he is clearly neurodivergent. What he shares with the kids I worked with is that he isn’t always able to communicate his truth to those around him. Yet he can communicate, in his own way, in his own mind. And that’s one of the key elements that struck me about this play.

Kenneth’s best friend, Bert, is imaginary. That’s revealed early enough that I’m not spoiling anything. We learn that Bert was once Kenneth’s social worker, the man who helped place him in an orphanage after his mother died when Kenneth was ten. They had lunch together every day, and when Bert’s work with him ended, Kenneth created an imaginary version of him to fill that void. When I wrote that the students I worked with will move on and forget me, I think that’s true. But they’ll forget because others will step in to take my place, and the people already supporting them will still be there. Kenneth has no one to step in and fill the void, and so he created or more accurately extended Bert’s presence with his mind. Don’t get me wrong, he isn’t crazy, he knows Bert isn’t real, and he knows he should only talk to him inside his head.

I used voice dictation to draft this review as I drove home, because, honestly, there are no spare minutes in my day. Each time I said “the kids will forget me,” the dictation wrote “forgive me.” Did I subconsciously say that, or was it coincidence? It reminded me how much that job meant to me. If I won the lottery tomorrow, I might go back to it. But I haven’t, and I need to make a living. Everyone at MGSH, my family and friends understands and supports that, but I still feel like I let them down. I don’t like leaving things unfinished. Even knowing I made the responsible, real-world choice, I’ll always carry a bit of that guilt. I’ll always be hoping they have forgiven me.

Will Sturdivant plays Bert with warmth, humor, and humanity. I related to him deeply. At one point, Bert, though he’s a figment of Kenneth’s imagination, realizes he must do what any mentor does: encourage Kenneth to expand his world, to connect with real people. It’s a powerful, moving moment.

Kenneth does find connection with Corrina, a waitress at Wally’s Tiki Bar, where he spends most evenings drinking Mai Tais with Bert. Nubia Monks plays Corrina, as well as about ten other characters, each distinct and fully realized. There’s a moment when Kenneth offers his arm for Corrina to take, and it is exactly the way one of my students would take my arm when she needed a break, to take a walk. That small gesture nearly undid me.

Pearce Bunting plays Kenneth’s two bosses, both gruff, intimidating men which he manages to show the tenderness behind their rough exteriors. A reminder that what is on the outside doesn’t always reflect what is on the inside. That aspect is echoed throughout the performance of Bryce Michael Wood as Kenneth who is astonishingly good. By the end of the 90-minute, no-intermission play, it’s clear he’s both physically and emotionally spent. Wood gives two distinct performances: the Kenneth who moves awkwardly through the real world, and the articulate and comfortable Kenneth who exists in conversation with Bert. That difference is illuminating, and deeply human. Don’t we all have a version of ourselves that exists in our minds, more articulate and self-assured than the one we present to the world?

I wondered if my love for this play was amplified by the day I’d had, but my plus one, who didn’t share my emotional baggage felt exactly the same. Primary Trust is a play that connects on many levels. For me, it was personal, emotional, joyful, and full of hope, much like the last seven weeks of my life. It’s about communication, understanding, and the quiet ways people reach each other.

Primary Trust is a beautiful, uplifting play that reminds us, if you need reminding, that people are resilient. I absolutely loved it, and I hope you’ll see it before it closes on November 16 at the Guthrie Theater in Minneapolis. For more information, tickets, and details on rush ticket options, visit guthrietheater.org.

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Treasure Island at Children’s Theatre Company Sets Sail for High Adventure

Truman Bednar, Reed Sigmund, Theo Janke-Furman, and Jon Schumacher Photographed by Glen Stubbe

Treasure Island by Robert Louis Stevenson was the first “classic” novel I read on my own which I found thrilling. I was also a fan of the Walt Disney film starring Robert Newton as Long John Silver. So I was excited to revisit this tale of pirates and buried treasures. Children’s Theatre Company’s (CTC) production of Stuart Paterson’s adaptation remains true to the source material. Just as with reading of young Jim Hawkins’ adventures as a young boy, I once again found myself setting course for danger and adventure upon the high seas. Marking the CTC directorial debut of new Artistic Director Rick Dildine, he proves that CTC has the ship heading in the right direction. The show which is recommended for ages 8 and up may be a little violent and dark for some of those 8 year olds. There are sword fights, gunfights, talk of hangings, and several on stage murders occur. There are also moments such as during a storm at sea where the theater is darker and the storm noises may be too much for some more sensitive children. The key is to know your children, and whether this is one that will thrill them or frighten them.

The role of Jim Hawkins in shared in alternating performances by Truman Bednar and Mason Yang, I saw Bednar perform the role and thought he did a great job. Reed Sigmund, braves his fear of water and loses a leg to play Long John Silver. Sigmund and the entire cast play their roles completely straight, there is no pandering to younger audiences. They’re there to tell the story of Treasure Island with all it’s thrills and dangers intact. Sigmund is electric as the ships cook who befriends young Hawkin’s only to be revealed later as the mastermind behind the pirates who want to take over the ship they serve on to steal the gold for themselves. The show also features some Stages of MN favorites in roles. Max Wojtanowicz plays Doctor Livesey and Em Adam Rosenberg plays Squire Trelawney, the two men who have arranged the trip to find the buried treasure and represent the heroes of the tale. Rosenberg lends their beautiful voice along with other performers including Matt Riehle to a surprising amount of musical performances that act as interludes between scenes. They are very well done and I really enjoyed their inclusion, and it felt as if those moments gave the children an opportunity to reset between moments of conflict.

Technically the production is wonderful as well. The set design by Christopher and Justin Swader is elaborate able to open as a Seaside Inn, transform into a mighty ship, and then become the Island destination of the title. The decorative motif of books throughout the set is a nice reminder that the story comes from a classic of children’s literature. Alexa Behm’s costumes are top notch whether adorning the sophisticated Squire Trelawney and Doctor Livesey, or a boatload of pirates. Lighting Designer Jeff Behm’s contributions are significant in creating the look and feel of the open sea and the storm which also uses projections by Blake Manns to complete the illusion. Sound designer Melanie Chen Cole completes the illusion and also has a lot of effective cues throughout like well timed splashes when something or someone is tossed overboard..

The production was darker in tone than I was expecting from the CTC, which was a pleasant surprise. If you love the story as I do, but don’t have any kids to take, don’t worry. This is one of those CTC shows that is as entertaining for the parents as it is for the kids, perhaps even more so. Treasure Island runs through October 19th at Children’s Theatre Company in Minneapolis. For more information and to purchase tickets go to https://childrenstheatre.org/whats-on/treasure-island/

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Maybe You Could Love Me a World Premiere From Theater Mu

Ashembaga Jaafaru and Sushma Saha Photo by Rich Ryan

One of the things I love about seeing so many productions is the different cultural perspectives I get to see the world through. The shows Theater Mu presents during its season are great examples of this. Maybe You Could Love Me by Samah Meghjee gives us an inside look into the lives of two young Muslim girls, Noor and Sajida, who are best friends. The play explores topics familiar to us as coming of age themes but through their specific cultural lens. It highlights what is universal about the human experience while also reflecting the unique ways in which our environment effects the ways in which we process those experiences. Like many white midwesterners, I know far too little about Islam, so while I’m not always sure what the characters are referring to specifically, Meghjee’s script provides enough context for me to understand what is happening without ever feeling like I’m being spoon fed information. We are simply observing the relationship between Noor and Sajida through time, seeing how their relationship develops through glimpses into three different ages 8, 17, and 26. It explores sexuality with a frankness that feels genuine and completely non-exploitative. Maybe You Could Love Me is a fascinating exploration of how friendship, queerness, and culture intermingle in the lives of these two young women.

Katie Bradley, who directs the show, is becoming a very strong Director with a clear understanding of how to communicate the growing and changing relationships between characters. Her last effort Stop Kiss, also for Theater Mu, also focused on two young women navigating their sexuality and relationship over multiple time periods. Bradley’s experience as an Actor is a strength in helping her guide these stories which focus on relationships and the connections between the characters. You can see her sensitivity towards the actor’s process in the way she stages the transitions between scenes. Building in time for Ashembaga Jaafaru and Sushma Saha, who play Noor and Sajida, to reset and center themselves into the next age as they change costume on stage. I do want to also note how much I enjoyed the spacious set by Scenic Designer Mina Kinukawa, which even features a bathroom that pushes out from the back wall complete with shower that is used to great effect.

There are other characters in the play that appear only via voices heard through the door to Noor’s room or on a telephone, but this is essentially a two hander between Jaafaru and Saha. Both performers handle the age shifts effectively, finding little touches to show us how they have changed as well as how they have remained the same over the 18 years which the play spans. It’s interesting to note through the script and the performances how the characters have swapped places in key ways. The younger Noor is the more adventurous of the two the one who is less strict with following the tenants of her religion. While Sajida the more timid and more apt to worry about whether something is allowed or isn’t. By the end it is Noor who has fallen inline with the cultural expectations of her community, while Sajida has chosen to follow more of her own path. This also reflects the status of their home lives, where Noor’s family is intact, Sajida’s parents are divorced and her father is uninvolved in her life. Jaafaru and Saha have an very natural intimacy between them which establishes them quickly in the minds of the audience as girls who have known each other since before they can even remember. The final scene plays all the more powerfully because of the bond we feel between them in the scenes from Act 1. Saha as faithful viewers of the YouTube show know is a Stages of MN favorite and they are well matched with Jaafaru. These are two very strong performances that make Maybe You Could Love Me a powerful play that speaks to everyone, while also allowing us a better understanding into Muslim culture.

Maybe You Could Love Me runs through September 28th at Mixed Blood Theatre in Minneapolis. For more information and to purchase tickets go to https://www.theatermu.org/maybe

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Minnesota Fringe Day 11 (Final Day): Rat Mass, The Jaws That Bite, The Claws That Catch! The Wickie(The Stages of MN Fringe of the Day Award winner).

We Did it!!! At least those of us who attended the Minnesota Fringe Festival this year did. I Saw 48 shows over 10 days, only missing one day entirely for a Wednesday evening Minnesota United game. On the final day of Fringe I also attended a Minnesota United game, but was able to fit in two shows before the game and then get back for a show in the final slot on Sunday and to attend the closing night party and awards ceremony. August 20th will be our official 2025 Minnesota Fringe Wrap Up episode rather than as originally announced “What the Hell’s a Theater Blogger”, which we’ll save for a future episode. Speaking of Theater Bloggers and awards, I want to give a shout out to my friend and fellow Twin Cities Theater Blogger in good standing Kendra Plant who writes Artfully Engaging which you can read and subscribe to here https://www.kendraplant.com/blog-artfully-engaging. Kendra was a first time producer at this years Minnesota Fringe festival with her show The Kendra Plant Variety Hour: Good Things Edition! -with special guests-, which won a Golden Lanyard Award!!! We’ll have a rundown of all of the award winners on that next episode of The Stages of MN YouTube Show and Podcast. Here are my reviews for the three shows I saw on the final day!

Rat Mass, would probably have gotten my vote for The Spirit of the Fringe Award had I seen it before the last day. This show is full of the type of audience participation I can really get behind. There is never any pressure or coaxing, if you wanted to participate you could, if not you were never threatened with shunning or excommunication. Rat Mass takes the form of a service of the Church of Ratology. Which worships the rat as the ideal form of life. During the sermon communion will be given, three offerings will be taken, with the winner of the best offering being crowned. At the service I attended the winner put in an epipen. There are also hymes led by the rat chorus and you could choose to be baptized into the church at the end by having your face dipped into a bowl of Apple Cider Vinegar. I was not baptized, but I did drink the Apple Cider vinegar that was offered as communion, the taste of which took about 2 hours to fully leave my mouth. The Ministers of the Church of Ratology Joseph Bryant and Perry Letourneau are very charismatic and game for just about anything. https://minnesotafringe.org/shows/2025/rat-mass

The Jaws That Bite, the Claws That Catch! is a play by Edwin Strout which begins with a character played by Strout expressing his adoration of the poem “Jabberwocky” by Lewis Carroll. It then quickly devolves into fragmented conversations with his best friend played by David Denninger and an ex girlfriend played by Anna Olson. We take these conversations, at first, as ones that are taking place in chronological order. But soon, we begin to realize they are memories or perhaps even just delusions occurring within Strout’s mind. The poem, perhaps the most famous nonsense poem in the english language, though originally written and published over a decade earlier appeared in Carroll’s sequel to Alice in Wonderland, Through the Looking-Glass. The nonsensical nature of the poem fits in well with the mirror world into which Alice ventures in the book. But when Strout tries to apply real world meaning and understanding to the work, we feel that it has perhaps shattered his mind. Strouts performance is convincing and one of the strongest of the festival. https://minnesotafringe.org/shows/2025/the-jaws-that-bite-the-claws-that-catch-

The Wickie is a solo clowning show by Richie Whitehead. What’s a Wickie you ask? A Wickie is a person who looks after a lighthouse and keeps the light (it’s wick) lit. It opens with the Wickie confronting the Ocean (pronounced Oh Shawn) for stealing his left shoe. We do get some audience participation, but again it’s very consensual. This was a fantastic way to end the festival and I’m glad I decided to rush back after my game and catch one more show. The Wickie is a great show for the whole family, full of laughs, with clever and deceptively simple gags. It’s the type of show where you think “that’s such a simple thing, but it’s so funny”. Its good natured silliness, and Whitehead’s precise physical humor made this the final The Stages of MN Fringe of the Day Award winner. https://minnesotafringe.org/shows/2025/the-wickie

That’s it for day Eleven and in fact the Minnesota Fringe Festival itself. You can click on the Fringe website here to get details on all of the shows https://minnesotafringe.org/shows/2025. Don’t forget to tune into The Stages of MN YouTube channel or podcast on or around 8/20 for The MN Fringe Festival wrap up episode https://www.youtube.com/@TheStagesofMN

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Fun Home is Dead Brilliant at Theater Latté Da

Eve Scharback (Small Alison), Sara Masterson (Alison), Monty Hays (Medium Alison). Photo Dan Norman

Fun Home the 90 minute no intermission (is there a better theater term than that?) show based on the autobiographical graphic novel by Alison Bechdel gets a fantastic staging at Theater Latté Da. A favorite of mine since I saw a performance of “Ring of Keys” on the 2015 Tony Awards and began listening to the Cast Recording. I saw the tour at the Orpheum Theatre in 2016, and have been anxious for someone to do it in town. The wait was worth it, Theater Latté Da has assembled a stellar cast particularly the trio of actors playing Alison at three different ages. That performance at the Tony’s of “Ring of Keys” that so captivated me that I began listening to the cast recording before even seeing the show, I didn’t think could be matched. But get your baseball gloves ready because Eve Scharback as Small Alison knocks it out of the park! It’s just one of several sublimely perfect moments in the show, but it’s perhaps the most powerful, when Alison clicks with herself. The penny drops and she doesn’t know what it all means yet, but she sees someone, an adult, and she recognizes herself in that stranger. It’s a moment of wonder, joy, and discovery and somehow, a very young actress, conveys all of that in her swagger and her bearing and her just right way of performing the song.

Fun Home is narrated by the Adult Alison who is a cartoonist. She’s turning her memories into a graphic novel and as she explores her past as one of three kids growing up in a house like a museum that is also a funeral home, known in the family as Fun Home. She wrestles with what is real as she doesn’t trust memory. Part of that is because our perspective changes at different ages. Our understanding of what might really have been happening becomes clearer, and new information gained later in life throws a different light on old memories. She states early on “My Dad and I both grew up in the same small Pennsylvania Town, and he was gay, and I was gay, and he killed himself, and I became a lesbian cartoonist”. That sums up what this musical explores, the ways in which two people who are in many ways similar, turn out so different because of the choices they made, and partly because of the times in which they were born it should be acknowledged. Bruce, Alison’s father lived his life in the closet and it ultimately destroyed him. Alison, came out, lived as her authentic self, and it made all the difference. It’s a powerful message in these dark days when we have taken such huge steps backwards as a society. One can see the temptation again to protect yourself by hiding who you are, this speaks to the importance of living your truth.

There are so many moments from this cast that blew the audience away. First up, the three juvenile actors playing Small Alison, Eve Scharback, her brothers Christian and John played by Truman Bednar and Brock Heuring practice a pretend commercial they are writing for the Funeral Home. “Come to the Fun Home” is a song that could go off the rails if any one of the three weren’t up to the task, but the three of them bring the house down, it’s so funny and fabulously choreographed by Katie Rose McLaughlin. Another favorite song is when Monty Hays (who is a The Stages of MN favorite, full stop), playing Medium Alison performs the song “Changing My Major” after their first sexual experience with college girlfriend Joan, played perfectly by the always great Emma Schuld. Lastly, I want to mention a song that has always tugged at my heart which is “Telephone Wire”. It takes place between Adult Alison played by Sara Masterson, who is standing in during this scene that actually took place on a car ride between Medium Alison and her father Bruce, played by Shad Hanley. There is a constant refrain “Say something, talk to him. Say something, Anything.” I think parents and children can both relate to that moment, when you want to be able to say something important to the other person and can’t find the moment or the courage. Adult Alison has stepped in because this is the last night with her Dad and the following lyrics explain why this moment is so important that she has inserted herself into the past to see if she can discover something she missed when she was young.

“Telephone wire, make this not the past.
This car ride, this is where it has to happen.
There must be some other chances.
There’s a moment I’m forgetting, where you tell me you see me?
Say something, talk to me.
Say something, anything.
At the light, at the light.
This can’t be our last-.”

“Telephone wire” Lyrics by Lisa Kron

Masterson is urgent and completely compelling in this heartbreaking moment where she is in the present pleading for a chance at a do over, but it isn’t that kind of show. She can reinterpret and reexamine a memory but she cannot change the past. Hanley is superb as Bruce, there are moments I hated how he behaved, partly because I hated when I behaved that way in my own life. Little parenting moments that every parent has where you didn’t handle things like you would if you were thinking about it rather than just living your life. But a lesson we can take from the show is that we cannot change the past, we have to move forward and move on.

Fun Home runs through May 4th at Theater Latté Da in North Minneapolis. I absolutely loved this production and I’m going to see it a second time if I can. Every aspect of the production is inspired, but I do want to point out specifically the Scenic Designer Eli Sherlock who has crammed every nook and cranny of the stage and under the stage with old furniture. I recommend you get your tickets early I can see this selling out performances and besides, you might want to see it twice as well. For more information and to purchase tickets go to https://www.latteda.org/fun-home

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